In the time where writers believe they are a success after being recoginzed, I consider myself one of those whom enjoys the process of writing. For me, writing every word is like styling an outfit, choosing a red lipstick to freshen up a dull outfit. With the creation of new tools to ensure the flow of words, I'm all for embracing mistakes, and appreciating the freudian slip. Many people tend to live life seeking the next best thing, ensuring always being updated with the ne

Cuisine is known as a set of traditions in cooking methods. In this post, it is just the set of traditions. In fact what writing, sports, cooking, and painting all have in common is mental discipline. A code of self directed authority while filtering out everything and everyone at practice. As an advanced competitive swimmer whom never really had a chance to be part olympics, since there is no private female only international competition; I succeeded to use the same mental d

The obsession to not get rejected, or being ignored, being called non-authentic, not being different, not being shamed, not being blamed etc. all goes back to the core of not wanting to be alone. The fear of being alone with your thoughts, choices, mistakes result with the obession to perfect everything. The mental tool used would be the anxiety in making sure things are going as you plan or looks as you want. Unmanaged anxieties lead to being stuck at certain stage in your r